Japan has a follow-up celebration called White Day on March 14th, where chocolate recipients return the favor by giving chocolates back. How does this relate to Valentine’s Day culture in Canada? What do you usually do for Valentine’s Day?

giving back chocolates relates to valentines day in Canada because many companies make and advertise chocolate special to valentines day, so you can give it to whoever you’re giving it to. These chocolates may come in heart shaped boxes or different wrapping. Something i usually do for valentines day is hang out with friends.

In Japan, the concept of giri-choco reflects social obligations and the importance of maintaining relationships. Do you think this is something we should adopt in Canada? Why? (Did you like exchanging cards in elementary school?)

I think this could be something adopted in Canada but not as important. I think showing that your relationships are important but i think this shouldn’t be necessary to show that. I also did not mind exchanging cards in elementary because it was a fun activity to do at home and you got lots of chocolate.

How do you feel about kouhaku? Would you rather confess/get confessed to or pine for your crush afar?

I’d rather be confessed to than confess myself because there’s something exciting about someone else coming up to you. It would make me feel special, like my feelings are validated, and I could be happy hearing someone express their affection openly. The idea of not having to put myself out there first eases the anxiety, making it feel safer and more meaningful. If the feelings are mutual, it would make the experience even more rewarding.